Posted by nick on August 08, 2000 at 13:32:30:
In Reply to: greek man, american woman posted by karina on July 18, 2000 at 22:54:57:
If this man is already putting his parents ahead of you, it could be a sign of things to come. How do his parents relate to you? Are you invited to their house with him? Do they see you as a threat or someone who can give happiness to their son?
Some Greek parents still like to be in control after the kids marry, especially if it is their son. Have you sensed this at all?
If there is a dissagreement down the line, will your husband stand up for you or expect you to go along with the folks.
I realize this is another view from some you have gotten , but it is worth considering. You are the only one that can see what direction your man is heading to.
If you are comfortable with the way it is now, then it should be ok. however, i assume since you wrote, you see something that might be a problem later on.
Good luck. Nick