Posted by firas on November 28, 2001 at 04:42:17:
In Reply to: Re: Need love advice with Greek boy posted by sky on October 24, 2001 at 13:26:15:
: Dear Isabella......... WOW I have the solution for you...... I introduced my friend michelle (american) to my friend (Vasillis) greek Cypriot..who would have know they would hit it off... He finished his college...and had to return.... she had to make a decision....... she went for 3 months and loved it over there..... A year later they decided they would get married or break it off..... Well they got married and I was the Koubada or as they like to say Koumeda... Cypr. is beautifulll..... Lots of english people over there.... But the difference is she is 30 and he is 31.... I dont know if you should take that risk at your age..... Unless yall are 100% sure about marrage... Trust me over sea's realation ships do not work out let alone realtionships only a few hours away..... Sit back and think what level are you at in your relationship is at!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
: : Isabella,
: : You mentioned that you have been going together for 2 years. Have you ever broken up during that time or have you remained together? Is he the same age as you? Did he go home over the summer or stay with you in the US? The reason I ask these questions is that it will give further insite, to give advice to your question. It really depends on how strong your bond has been, and is right now. What part of the country are you in? The bigger the city, sometimes the better chance to find a job!
: : : Hi,
: : : I'm a 23 year-old college student in the U.S. and my boyfriend for the past two years is a Greek Cypriot who is here for school. He graduates in May and I know he's going back if he can't find a job here. He says that he would like to stay here, but I'm not sure if that's possible.
: : : My problem? I don't know what to do, I really love him but I'm not sure if I should continue dating him because he may have to go back to Cyprus very soon. I'm afraid I'll only grow closer to him and hurt myself more in the long run when he leaves. But on the other hand it would be very difficult for me to end things now because I care so much
: : : I'm really worried about this and I don't know what to do. Can anyone else relate to this problem? What do you advise?
: : : Thank-you,
: : : Isabella
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