Posted by Lisa on April 18, 2002 at 04:42:43:
In Reply to: She broke up with me posted by Need advice on April 17, 2002 at 09:13:36:
I think this may have something to do with it:
When you said " I told her some of the things that bothered me about her, like I thought she was too stressed out a person, that she was making a big deal out of little things, that I didn't think our relationship was too deep then if she couldn't forget all the problems."
Basically, if my man told me those things after being together only 4 months, I'd have been extremely hurt and probably angry. I suspect that she was hurt but didn't say anything at the time, but that kind of hurt eats away at a relationship.
You may not have meant it that way but it comes across as quite callous. I suggest that you write her a letter, telling her how you really feel and if she still doesn't want to know, there isn't much you can do. Not everyone can take such blunt honesty so early on in a relationship.
Good luck, I hope it works out in the end.
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